Matahari tidak akan terbit sebelum waktunya. Malam tidak akan turun sebelum waktunya. Sekalipun kita meronta ingin pagi lebih cepat datang atau malam lebih lama tenggelam.
Semua akan datang di waktunya masing-masing. Begitupun hidup kita. Memiliki waktunya masing-masing. Setiap orang ibarat…
Aku menjalani hari-hari sendiriku setiap hari. Tujuh hari dalam seminggu. Berulang-ulang hingga sekarang. Aku tumbuh, mempunyai cita-cita, lalu mendewasa. Semakin hari aku semakin paham, bahwa hari-hari sendiri seperti ini suatu saat pasti akan diakhiri. Diakhiri dengan baik tentu saja. Dan aku…
I know right now, all that is visible is seen through the lenses of loss and pain. So, I’m not sure the words I say to you will resonate. But know that feelings just are. Experience them. Don’t deny them or push them away. If you do, it will come out through other avenues like short-tempers and sharp answers to friends and loved ones who don’t deserve to be mistreated.
We do not deny our experiences, good or bad. We must embrace them. They are a part of who we are. The point is to keep from dwelling on the past or holding on to the bad times. This way, we don’t lead ourselves into resentment, cynicism and bitterness. If we want to get angry and scream at God because we think it’s His fault, that’s okay. He can handle our anger. God might not appear to care, but He does. He promises us that. We can give up on Him and walk away, but how much better off will we be?
You might believe that you must stop loving Eden, but that’s not true. We can love even when we know that love will never be returned. We are allowed to love someone even if that person is gone. What we miss is their presence, but that doesn’t mean we must stop loving them.
As Maclean wrote, it is those who we love the most who so often elude us. But we can still love them. We can love them completely, without complete understanding.
Loving is not the same as holding on because “holding on” implies that we hope the loved one will come to their senses and return. Love is an action based on free choice despite the consequences. Love only becomes painful when it demands something in return. And though it may take time, you will find joy in loving those who might not even be aware of your love.
Understand, son, that we can only help those who have hit rock bottom when we ourselves have seen existence through that same lens. Therefore, you can use the pain you’ve experienced to ease the pain in others. This does not mean God purposefully inflicts pain or is the author of loss, nor does it mean that every time we experience loss or pain that God is behind the cause. But it does mean that God can take the bad things and turn them into beautiful things. But that takes time. It cannot happen overnight.
I’m sorry that I have rambled on and on, but I sometimes must write out my thoughts before I share them with you. In my old age, it helps me articulate what I want to say. Know Clayton, I love you. Your parents love you, your brother loves you, and above all, God loves you. Dwell on these things. Hang in there and stay encouraged. As the old saying goes, “This too will pass.”
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Good morning! So here’s the deal, we teamed up with Tumblr for the Too Weird To Live, Too Rare To Die! Tour pre-sale. Oh and it starts today! At 10 AM local time! The password for these pre-sale tickets is…
So EST do what you gotta do for the next hour and be back at 10am sharp to get your hands on those tickets! Everyone else, go back to sleep and set your alarms for 9:50am.
p.s. Los Angeles, we’ve got some good news for you to wake up to! We’re coming back on February 16th at The Wiltern and pre-sale begins at 10am TODAY, so get ready!
Too Weird To Live, Too Rare To Die! Tour!
*w/ The Colourist
1/14/14 - Seattle, WA @ Showbox SoDo (Tickets)
1/15/14 - Vancouver @ Commodore (Tickets)
1/17/14 - Salt Lake City, UT @ In the Venue* (Tickets)
1/18/14 - Denver, CO @ Ogden (Tickets)
1/19/14 - Kansas City, MO @ Uptown* (Tickets)
1/21/14 - Minneapolis, MN @ Skyway Theatre* (Tickets)
1/22/14 - St. Louis, MO @ The Pageant* (Tickets)
1/24/14 - Columbus, OH @ LC Pavilion* (Tickets)
1/25/14 - Cincinnati, OH @ Bogart’s* (Tickets)
1/26/14 - Cleveland, OH @ House of Blues* (Tickets)
1/28/14 - Washington, DC @ The Fillmore* (Tickets)
1/29/14 - Wallingford, CT @ The Dome* (Tickets)
1/30/14 - Boston, MA @ House of Blues* (Tickets)
1/31/14 - Montreal, QC @ Metropolis* (Tickets)
2/1/14 - Toronto, ON @ Sound Academy (Tickets)
2/4/14 - New York, NY @ Roseland* (Tickets)
2/5/14 - Philadelphia, PA @ Electric Factory* (Tickets)
2/7/14 - Atlanta, GA @ Tabernacle* (Tickets)
2/8/14 - Miami, FL @ Fillmore* (Tickets)
2/9/14 - Orlando, FL @ House of Blues* (Tickets)
2/11/14 - Houston, TX @ House of Blues* (Tickets)
2/14/14 - Phoenix, AZ @ Marquee* (Tickets)
2/15/14 - Oakland, CA @ Fox Theatre (Tickets)
2/16/14 - Los Angeles, CA @ The Wiltern (Tickets)
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